How to Talk to Girls? The best way to talk to girls is to be honest and keep things moving forward. You should always ask her out as soon as possible to steer clear of the friend-zone and avoid wasting your time. When texting, always set the date up as soon as possible so you can actually hang out with her in person. She will love talking about herself, and also quickly become curious about you. Always look for a relationship, never an interracial statement. They can do this using the internet, telephone, sending letters and visiting them directly when possible.